英语翻译求大神帮忙把以下句子翻译成英语.1.不要等到自己为人夫,为人父的时候才意识到,假如十年前自己再努力一点的话,现在

求大神帮忙把以下句子翻译成英语.不胜感激.
1.不要等到自己为人夫,为人父的时候才意识到,假如十年前自己再努力一点的话,现在的日子会好过的多.2.因为你是一个男人,你是爱人的保护伞,是孩子的避风港,是家里的顶梁柱.
Don't wait to realize it until you are a husband or a father ,If I had worked harder,my present would have been better
Because you are a man who is the protective umbrella of your lover /wife and sheltering harbour of your children and the backbone of your family.

1. Don't waiting until you become a father do you realize that if you had worked harder 10 years ago,the life now will be easier.

2. Because you are a man and You are not only the protecter of your wife and your children,but also you are the family's breadwinner.

1. Don't wait for themselves RenFu, father to realize, if oneself again a little bit hard ten years ago, would have had a much better day now. 2. Because you are a man, you are a lover of umbrella, is the child's haven, is the mainstay of our home.

1 Do not wait until their a husband, a father, when realized, if ten years ago, his words a little more effort, and now had a much better day.
2 Because you are a man, you are lover umbrella, is the child's haven, is home to the pillar.