求英语大师翻译一篇短文父母们反对子女恋情的主要原因是，恋爱对象的家境以及他们认为大学生应该以学习为重。同时也存在对方人品

” A major reason that parents oppose their children's relationships is the very person's family background and they consider college students should put study first. Meanwhile, there is also influence of factors like his or her quality, financial situation, his or her ability, the place to live, and so on. Therefore, parents do think for the sake of their children and they are also standing at the angle as a bystander, hoping them to have a bright future. As a freshman with a surname of Lin said：“children also should think for their parents and shouldn't igore them while having relationships." Most students who have accepted the interview expressed that they could understand their painstaking thoughts and hearts ( 91.67% interviewees think parents should give their opinion about their children's relationships). However, as youngsters, it is difficult for them to think coolly and rationally while facing the conflict beween love and romance.
Eventually， we believe that mutual understanding should be developed for them as equals.
In the survey, we come to understand that the advice given by parents generally refers to the partner's quality, family background, appearance, ability and place of residence. As you see, their purpose doesn't lie in preventing their children from developing a relationship but to help them find a better lover from a longer point of view. However, children usually pay more attention to the present happiness and this is the main source of divergence between them. Although parents' advice may not correct completely, college students shouldn't ignore or even against them. They should keep cool and understand their purpose, communicate with them patiently and find the way out together. As for parents, do not be overstrain for their children's love affairs, leave them more space and trust. Help them as much as they can whenever they're in need.
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