I must work hard to change my life What about you Please tel

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at first,i have to say i am not working right now.actually i am a student who is gonna to apply for university in america.
the listening part in toefl is my big problem.but listening almost occupies 3 out of 4 in toefl.
i gotta find a way to improve it.
my teacher gave me some tips.i know i through these practice,i can make progress.but.u know,i cannot hold this perseverance like i did in the first place.
then i find a spiritual prop.that is,after about 4monthes left hard working,i can have a great time with my best of the best friend for 8monthes,which stimulates me whenever i wanna give up.
i hope u can one day find ur spiritual prop.u know what?destiny can be handled.

yep .one should work hard to change his life.most of us have to

I haven't worked yet.