英语翻译Being single is great in many ways,but being single and

英语翻译
Being single is great in many ways,but being single and searching for a
> partner is no fun at all.What frustrates me the most is that my choices of
> how to spend my scarce leisure time have to put so much weight on the
> probability of encountering eligible candidates,rather than giving highest
> priority to maintaining the relationships (with my friends who are married
> and,increasingly,with children) and doing the things that I truly want.
>
> This is not a "real" problem in light of the preceding discussion,but it is
> a persistent nuisance.I feel stuck in a holding pattern,in a lifestyle
> not that different from how I spent my mid-20's (but I will be the first to
> acknowledge that many of the married-with-childrens would see my grass as
> greener).
>
> Maybe this is nothing more than run-of-the-mill midlife crisis,nagging me
> to do something more important with my life.I long ago gave up on changing
> the world,so building a family would qualify as a legitimate enough
> pursuit.But if I will not get the chance to do that,and if I am not going
> to love my job (like it,yes; love,no),I might as well sell out and get
> rich.But that reasoning has no genuine appeal to me either,and I wouldn't
> even know how to begin a pursuit of such an option now.