contradictory 和self-contradictory都可以:The human soul is hospitable,and will entertain conflicting sentiments and contradictory opinions with much impartiality 人类的灵魂是能够容纳一切的,它毫不偏袒...
楼主说得是一种很特殊的矛盾。。。我不记得有某个单一的词来形容这种矛盾的,一般会用Hedgehog's dilemma做比喻,经典的豪猪悖论,在心理学和社会学上都有出现,意指人类在希望与人接近的同时不可避免的会受伤与伤人。 你可以说He is like a hedgehog seeking for intimacy, wishing to be warmed by others but fe...