帮我翻译一下一段话!当时所有的焦急就在同桌这种无所谓的口气中变成了坦然．其实很多时候我们太过注重生活中的理所应当,总是觉

All the impatience became calmness through the student's indifferent attitude,who sat next to me.In fact,most of the time we focus too much on the "certain things" in life,we believe that things should go that way,and it's wrong for them to go another way.But it will be easier for us to let my cell phone down instead of keep on being fretful,isnt it?