it is said that the who you suggested ____charge of the teac

it is said that the who you suggested ____charge of the teaching affairs in our school has gone abr
it is said that the man who you suggested ____charge of the teaching affairs in our school has gone abroad
用take的形式来填,take 还是 took
老师说这个题是看suggested ,因为有suggested sb do sth,但是我觉得这个suggested 应该是the man 的定语,和后面是两个结构吧,然后用过去式表一种状态啊,我觉得很对啊,高手帮忙看下哈