英语翻译下面的材料是一段读书笔记,翻译成一篇200词以上的完整读书笔记,可以删选,指责别人会让事情变得增糟糕,他人的批评

By accusing others will make things worse, there is no criticism of the role of others, it will be critics, to enhance self-defense, and will make every effort to defend himself. Sometimes the criticism is even more dangerous, because
It may be against a person's self-esteem, and stirred his resistance.
We should understand that when we get along with others, in the face not only the truth, we should give more consideration to the feelings of others. The criticism is emotional
Fuse, self-esteem is a powder keg explosion can fuse. Only stupid people would be to criticize, blame and complain about others.
Appreciation is a great force in this world there is only one way to encourage people to do any of that, that is, to what he wants, let him have the feeling of importance.
We give them steak, each on to supplement their physical strength, but neglected to thank their words. This speech is worth the early morning the beautiful music
Will always sing in their memories.
Sincere concern for others to smile is a universal agent, who say less talk more than listen
From the point of view of human nature, everyone is most concerned about is their own. For someone like you, then do a person good at listening, encouraging more people talk about
Themselves. If you want to make people like you, interested in you, then you talk to others he knew most things.
The real reason why there will be some communication barriers, it is because they do not know or forget an important principle - to make others feel important
.
The other set will be the first place, this is the best way to make friends.
Argument can not change other people's thoughts
We will not be for anyone - regardless of their level of intelligence - verbal battle with the change in his thinking.
Back any stupid people try to defend himself for his mistakes. And intelligent people will do so: He admitted his mistake.
Do not impose your views
No one likes to be forced to do something or accept the opinions of others. People like to buy things according to their wishes, or according to their
Means to do it. Also, like someone to solicit our views, wishes and ideas.
Sometimes, it is difficult to use a simple measure of right and wrong of a thing. Your perspective is different, the results not the same. When a person is faced with
Serious problem, if he can from the perspective of others things, the original problem may be puzzled to become suddenly see the light of the.