君子之于人,或推以恕,或责以备.恕,故迁善自新之路广；备则难得,难得,故可贵焉.然知其所可恕,与其所可贵,岂不又难哉!

There are two kinds of the gentleman's attitude towards others,is a kind of work,so that the tolerance of others (because they can't do that,so to do other people do not forgive him); The other is in perfect,comprehensive standards to ask others.Tolerance to others,so other people can get better,the road of self-improvement is broad; Perfect,comprehensive to others requirement,conform to such standards are very few,because very few,so the more cherished.The further understand a person what aspects can be tolerant,which aspects are worth to cherish,isn't it more difficult for you!