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Discuss simply the correct appreciation that parents should have
It is that a kind of encouragement is awarded ,includes the purpose of appreciating praise to appreciate and educate in fact; Know,must approve.Praise the advantage that the means affirms the child ,strong point through encouraging in " appreciating and educating ",encourage them to pursue the successful " gold key " constantly.
" competent " that in fact the child or " no way ",is it treat they to depend on parents to a great extent,drum angry giving them to be discouraged for them?Appreciate him or neglect him?Each child had very great latent energy,the full play of and latent energy could not be separated from that parents' appreciation to them is.Only the correct appreciation child,could make them full of self-confidence ,face the question actively,may just create the unusual mark .
An example is like this:Truman is just elected the president,particularly the reporter wants to find out about its family life,so go to visit his mother,his mother has given an interview joyfully .The reporter smiles and asks Truman's mother:"You have such a son,believe you will certainly feel very proud and proud ." " what you said is good," Truman's mother says," but I have a son,he lets me feel proud too.""last woolen cloth now such as he?"The reporter asked."He is digging potatoes in the field now."
Through this example being actually to want to say whether one's own child is outstanding ,treat him as the attitude that parents should all be that Israel appreciate.Can seem mother of Truman because two with a wide gap status of son have any prejudice or feel to young son for job their disgraced,proud because of the earning one's own living of it instead.Thus,as parents,so long as the thing that one's own child is engaged in is right,harmless to people,whom he interested in,why be imposed on child at the body one's own idea?If can accomplish so ,why can be can't be with child's also good communication,how could let because child is it feel the grievance while being self- to lose?
Parents should learn to appreciate one's own child,can start from several respects :
1 all accept the child's
Must have pluses and minuses as people,especially to child,parents can't require them not to make a mistake ,immaculate .Parents are shining points of seeing the child,should regard its shining point as the basis of appreciating ,it is insufficient to propose while protecting child's self-esteem ,excite its self-confidence of giving up the shortcoming,development letting it be better.
2 correct appraisal children
With the growing up constantly of the child,what they knew are more and more,the mood hoping to be affirmed and praising will be stronger and stronger .Parents' appreciation,can help children to strengthen self-confidence ,become positive ,courageous and resolute,and mood is steady.On the contrary ,if criticize simply ,deny,child's understanding will is downhearted ,deny oneself ,lack confidence.
3 respects the child's individual character
We must realize and admit the child is an independent individual ,his idea and view should be respected.It is to the appreciation of its personality to offer due respect to him,the child will become positive because of this kind of appreciation that you offer ,and would like to share his idea with you.On the contrary,the injury and attacking to the child is what we can't imagine .
4 holds the opportunity appreciated
In the growing child,is always full of curiosity and like exceeding one's own ability or the thing never done.But because of the influence in such factors as the age and ability ,etc.,sometimes the child will lack confidence ,suspect to some extent to one's own ability ,at this moment ,parents should give in proper encouragement and praise,lead children and finish thing ,these ,to importance very much of self-confidence training the child.Must not grudge one's own praise .
On the other hand,parents should grasp degree of " appreciating " ,don't overly appreciate ,excessive appreciation will often make parents come into the emotional mistaken idea spoilt ,know child's self-confidence and expand excessivly,can't stand others' criticism ,is unfavorable to the child's cultivation.
Thus,everything has two respects,only parents " appreciate " it is invisible water ,sunshine and air in child's life " just right,set up the bridge where good emotion communicated
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