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Don‘t Hesitate to Say "No"
When we are asked to help but unable to do so,we might as well say "No" with explanation of the reasons for our refusal However,there are many instances in our life that we are afraid of saying "No".For instance,when our good friend invites us to join his birthday party; when our classmate asks us to do him a favor; when our relative wants to borrow our new car or new cell phone.Faced with the anxious look on their face,we may find it really difficult to say "No" even though we don‘t want to do we are asked to do.
Actually,it is natural and often necessary for us to say "No" if we really don‘t want to say "Yes".We have the right to choose what and how we shall do.Moreover,we should know that if we do not say "No" when we should have done so will not only cause delay in others‘ business,but also make others think that we are "untrustworthy".
Therefore,don‘t hesitate to say "No".
When we are asked to help but unable to do so,we might as well say "No" with explanation of the reasons for our refusal However,there are many instances in our life that we are afraid of saying "No".For instance,when our good friend invites us to join his birthday party; when our classmate asks us to do him a favor; when our relative wants to borrow our new car or new cell phone.Faced with the anxious look on their face,we may find it really difficult to say "No" even though we don‘t want to do we are asked to do.
Actually,it is natural and often necessary for us to say "No" if we really don‘t want to say "Yes".We have the right to choose what and how we shall do.Moreover,we should know that if we do not say "No" when we should have done so will not only cause delay in others‘ business,but also make others think that we are "untrustworthy".
Therefore,don‘t hesitate to say "No".
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DO not hesitate to say "stop"
Parents today are simply afraid to say "no" to their children. What started with "yes" to one request has spiraled out of control. Children today are demanding and expect to hear "yes" to every request. I will teach you to distinguish between a reasonable request and one that is unreasonable.
By giving in to demands we know are unreasonable or not in their best interest we will only encourage more and more of these demands and our kids will not learn what is reasonable. In order for your children to learn that "no" is part of life, you need to break the cycle and start saying "no". And yes, your children will still love you. I will help prepare you with suitable responses for the angry outcries you may hear from your kids after they hear a "no."
We need to recognize that an "I hate you" or a "You're a mean mom" are natural responses that a parent can live through and not reasons for automatically giving in to their kids' demands. Establishing rules and boundaries will not prevent our kids from loving and respecting us!
Parents today are simply afraid to say "no" to their children. What started with "yes" to one request has spiraled out of control. Children today are demanding and expect to hear "yes" to every request. I will teach you to distinguish between a reasonable request and one that is unreasonable.
By giving in to demands we know are unreasonable or not in their best interest we will only encourage more and more of these demands and our kids will not learn what is reasonable. In order for your children to learn that "no" is part of life, you need to break the cycle and start saying "no". And yes, your children will still love you. I will help prepare you with suitable responses for the angry outcries you may hear from your kids after they hear a "no."
We need to recognize that an "I hate you" or a "You're a mean mom" are natural responses that a parent can live through and not reasons for automatically giving in to their kids' demands. Establishing rules and boundaries will not prevent our kids from loving and respecting us!
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