) Should we give first priority to appearance in choosing a

In my opinion,appearance is not so important in choosing a life-long partner,we choose a lover to accompany with us for a life time ,If he or she can always be with U,sharing happiness and sorrows together,no matter facing any condition.I think this is the most important.
He/she is your lucky star,shining in your heart,There is a saying:"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"So ,If you really take someone into your heart,appearance shouldn't be the first priority.
Just my personal opinion.