I feel that that's how my wife and i are with our kids.

I feel that that's how my wife and i are with our kids.
We were more important than my parents were,in their eyes.I feel that that's how my wife and I are with our kids.They are the stars of our family.They are everything to us,and we are secondary to them.People may disagree with that viewpoint,but I don't know how to be any other way.
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