未哭过长夜的人,不足以语人生.Thomas Carlyle 的英文原话是什么?

Not sure about Carlyle :-) ,but I like this one a lot,跟卡莱尔的意思差不多：
"There is a sacredness in tears.They are not the mark of weakness,but of power.They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues.They are the messengers of overwhelming grief,of deep contrition,and of unspeakable love."
---Washington Irving (1783 - 1859)
眼泪带有一种神圣.它并不是脆弱的表现,而是威力强大的标志.眼泪比一万张嘴巴更让人信服,它传达了巨大的悲痛,深深的痛悔和难以言表的爱.
---华盛顿•欧文