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Then it will become easier to change your grievance story,turning it around so that you are the hero,not the victim."I learned to be sympathetic with myself,to see how difficult my parents' divorce was for me," says Meriweather.She also saw how much she'd accomplished despite not having a great relationship with her father."The big breakthrough for me was sorting out and accepting that I have some fundamental differences with him.They may never be resolved and that's okay."