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WillyoubehappyifyouhaveanewNikeT-shirton?Probablyyouwill.Butwhatifyouseeafriendwearingamorefashionableandmorebeautifulone?Youmaynotbesosatisfiedasyouexpectandfeelingofhappinessmaydisappearinaminute. Whyarewenotsohappyasweshouldbe?Thesecretis:wefocusonwhatwewantinsteadofwhatwehave.Wekeepmakingourlistofdesirelongerandlonger.Asaresult,wearenotpleasedwithwhatwehavealreadyowned.Wesaytoourselves,"I'llbehappywhenthisdesireissatisfied."However,anotherdesireappearswhenthisoneismet.So,westilldon'tfeelhappythoughwehavegotwhatwewant.Happinesscan'tbefoundwhenwealwayshavenewdesirehardtosatisfy. Luckily,thereisawaytobehappy.Thinkmoreaboutwhatwehavethanwhatwewant.Ratherthanwishyouwereabletohaveanenjoyablevacationonthebeach,thinkofwhatyoufunyouhavehadathome.Similarly,insteadofhatingtodomuchhomework,thanteachersformakingyouhavethechancetopracticemore.Thelistofwhatyouhavecanalsobeendless.Eachtimeyoufindyourselffallinginto"Iwishlifeweredifferent"trap,takeadeepbreathandthinkofeverythingyouhaveeverhad. Paymoreattentiontowhatyouhaveandyou'llprobablygetmoreofwhatyouwant.Forexample,yourgoodattitudetowarddoinghomeworkcanbringexcellentgradesinexamsbecausepracticemakesperfact. Starttofocusonwhatwehave!Themorewefeelsatisfied,themorehappilywe'lllive.
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