英语作文:my biggest mistake

　　As a woman, one of the biggest mistakes I've made that mistake once the love of life as a whole. During that time, we can say only live for love, to love as all the hope and meaning of life. Of course, love and finally out of the question. Fortunately, later I realized that love is just a part of life, that part of it is not even a pillar of, but for the life of that part of the icing on the cake.
　　At that time, I think it is a problem because of the love that he began to go wrong, life began to go wrong. In fact, when looking back found that, in fact, when I first went wrong, entangled in a variety of inexplicable fear among the hapless love will follow. When love is when something goes wrong, if two people love just want to fix, rather than objectively reflect and improve yourself, then once again a beautiful love, rescue is not coming back. A person like anger Wang, from chicken pox, you do not try to send a fire, just touch some acne plaster, will not have much use.
　　Later, I will no longer worry about. Fear will only make a good thing bad, bad thing worse. Many girls said to me: "I just did not feel safe." But the "security" is what? What men really give you a sense of security? Maybe you're worried now, why they have not found a boyfriend; when you find a boyfriend, you began to worry, he does not marry me how to do; when he married you, you have to worry about his derailed how many people do ...... so again and again worried endlessly, where there is time to enjoy the love? To feel the love the most sincere, most beautiful part?
　　There is no sense of security, either from their own distrust; either due to distrust each other. If you really love a man, and make sure he worthy of your love, then choose to trust him. As for their lack of trust, which requires long-term self-regulation and encouragement. The most important is a woman, no matter how crazy it was love, it must have some of their hobbies, their friends, their own ideas, and more importantly - there must be an independent personality. Only in this way will you trust yourself.
　　Do not put the blame on his own misfortune late love, or love ring true, in fact, when you take care of all parts of life in addition to love outside the harvest you will naturally want to love.