英语翻译一个朋友给我发来的邮件 请帮我翻译 如果要是拒绝我的话 请别那么直接的告诉我我会伤心的,要是同意的话 请好好的写

英语翻译
一个朋友给我发来的邮件 请帮我翻译 如果要是拒绝我的话 请别那么直接的告诉我我会伤心的,要是同意的话 请好好的写出来!
Indeed!I like you,but you need to understand that we come from different countries and have the different cultural background,different languages,different life concept.Although love can transcend everything,but you must understand that should make an immense effort,and I still have no preparation,so,dear!I'm sorry I can't choose to be with you.Christmas is coming soon hope you happy if come to New York city again please contact me.