I read such a story yesterday.The young father asked an

I read such a story yesterday.The young father asked an
elderly neighbour what strict parents should be with their children.
The old man points to a rope between a big tree and a yong one,
said,"Unite the rope" The yong father did so and at once the
young tree bent.Then the old man asked the young man tie it again,
and immediately the young tree stood up right as it used to be.
Now the old man said ,"It is the same to children .You must be
strict with them for their growth .But sometime you must let
them stand alone to see if they are strong enough.Being strict
with them are for the sake of their independence development."