造成她不愉快的原因,与其说是他所说的话,倒不如说是他的说话方式 翻译成英语

what makes her unhappy is the way he talked to her rather what he said.
rather...than 有“与其说...倒不如说..."的意思.
举几个例子.
1.She is charming rather than beautiful.
与其说她美倒不如说她迷人.
2.These are political rather than social matters.
这是政治问题而不是社会问题.
3.It is a telex rather than a letter.
与其说它是一封信,不如说它是一封电传.
more…than…有时也表示“与其说…,倒不如说…”
如：He is more diligent than wise.
与其说他很聪明,倒不如说他很勤奋.

The reson which made her unhappy was the way he spoke rather than the words he said.

what caused her unpleasant is not more like his word than the way he talk to her.

What made her sad is not what he said but his way of speaking

What made her so mad was his manner of speaking rather than what he said.