翻译一篇英语文章 «How to Love Your Children»

翻译一篇英语文章 «How to Love Your Children»
Students'spressuresometimescomesfromtheirparents,Mostparentsare well meaning ,but some of them are 't very helpful with the problems their sons and daughters have in adusting to college ,and a few of them seem to go out their way to add to their children difficulties . For one thing ,parentsare often not aware of the kinds of problems their children face . They don't realize that the competition is keener that the required standards of work are higher ,and that their children may not be prepared for the change .Accustomed to seeing A's and B's on high school report cards ,they may be upset when their children's first semester college grades are below that level ,At their kindest ,they may gently inquire why John or Mary isn't doing better ,whether he or she is trying as hard as he or she could ,and so on .and their worst ,they may threaten to take their children out of college ,or cut off funds . Sometimesparentsregard their children as extensions of themselves and think it only right and natural that thty determine what their children do with their lives .In their involvement and indentification with their children ,they forget that everyone is different and that each person must develop in his or her own way ,They forget that their children ,who are now young adults ,must be the ones responsible for what they do or what they are .